I really need help on these poems..?

hhmmm... you didn't ask a question....are you asking for interpretations or something? I think the first one means a man who cannot enjoy what he has for wanting something else, and the one who he wanted most hurt him most because she didn't care one way or the other-indifference is worse than dislike to some people, because they think it means they don't matter....on the second one, I think it might be another version of that saying...if only the youth is wasted on the young...when you are young you can be callus and indifferent (cold like winter) even though you are blessed and blooming like summer, but by the time you are no longer warm and lovely on the outside, you have learned to love and appreciate on the inside. Hope this is what you were looking for and that it helps!